May 11, 2004 – Friday, February 10, 2012
Service Information
Church of St. Francis Xavier, Buffalo, MN
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
11:00 A.M.
Visitation Information
Church of St. Francis Xavier, Buffalo, MN
Wednesday, February 15, 2012
9:30 – 11:00 AM
Hayden Benjamin Solien, age 7, of Montrose died accidentally on Friday, February 10, 2012.
Hayden was born on May 11, 2004 in Waconia, MN the son of Timothy L. and Carrie (Socher) Solien.
He was a very friendly little boy who played with everyone! Hayden was a second grade student at Parkside Elementary School. He enjoyed reading, fishing, bugs, dinosaurs, motorcycles, skateboarding, going to the park, riding his bike and playing soccer and hockey. He also loved being a big brother to his sister Chloe.
He was preceded in death by his Grandpa Leo Socher.
Hayden is survived by his loving parents, a sister: Chloe; grandparents Merrilla Socher of Montrose and LuVern and Claire Solien, of Buffalo, Aunts and Uncles: Debbie (Jack) Wambeke of Maple Lake, Danny (Tammy) Socher of Waverly, Cindy Solien- Reid of St. Michael, Pam Klein of Becker and Janelle (Jared) Mutterer of Buffalo; many cousins, other relatives and friends.
A Mass of Christian Burial for Hayden Solien will be held on Wednesday, February 15, 2012 at 11:00 AM at the Church of St. Francis Xavier in Buffalo. Father David Hennen will be the Celebrant.
Visitation will be held on Wednesday, February 15th from 9:30 AM until the time of service at the church.
Casket Bearers will be Danny Socher, Devin Socher, Joe Torba and Paul Torba.
A Trust Fund has been established at Citizens State Bank of Waverly, c/o The Hayden Solien Benefit Fund, P.O. Box 68, Waverly, MN 55390.
Arrangements for Hayden Solien are by The Peterson Chapel in Buffalo. Online condolences may be made to www.thepetersonchapel.com
So very sorry for your loss. My heart aches for all of you. Thoughts and prayers are being sent your way.
We were so sorry to hear of your terrible loss. I wish there was something we could do to make the hurt go away. You are all in our hearts & prayers.
Dear Carrie, Merilla, Danny, and Family;
We are so very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
-Liz Lewis-Amundson & Sue Gallus
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest sympathy.
Lyn & Connie Leffew
My heart is broken for your family.
Tim and Family,
I am very sorry for your loss.
Zak Welch
There is a sacredness in tears.
They are not the mark of weakness,
but of power.
They speak more eloquently
than 10,000 tongues.
They are the messengers
of overwhelming grief,
of deep contrition,
and of unspeakable love.
– Washington Irving
Carrie,
I imagine there is no pain more far-reaching and deeper than losing a child. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family at this most difficult time.
With deepest condolences,
Jayne Ziegler
(Archway Co-worker)
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Deb Kocen (Skybridge Marketing)
Carrie and Family,
I am so very sorry to hear of the horrible news about Hayden. This kind of thing should never happen to such wonderful people and pull very hard on my heart strings. I want to pass on my sincerest condolences and let you know that my prayers are with you and yours during this trying time.
Vaughn
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. It is unimaginable what you must be feeling at this time. Be strong for each other and remember that God is with your family.
Dear family of Hayden, our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May your memories be your comfort. Words cannot express how sorry we are to hear of the loss of your precious child. But know he is in the arms of our sweet Lord . You will meet again. He will live on in your hearts forever until you meet again. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this time. Hayden will live on in in your hearts and ours forever. May your strength prevail to help you through this difficult time . God Bless you all. Love, Debbie and David Larsen
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Carrie; My heart and mind cannot comprehend the state of absolute anguish you face. Hayden is a beautiful child. My heart is shattered for you, my dear friend. Our prayers are for you and your family as you move forward in the coming days.
“Jesus said to them…let the children come to me…” Mark 10:14-16
All my love to you, Kari
Tim Solien family;
Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. God bless your family.
Carrie, I am so very sorry to hear of your tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Michael Embury
Winnipeg, MB
I’m so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Carrie – my thoughts are with you and your family through your loss. Such a bright light gone too soon.
Our deepest sympathy to your family. Hayden was such a fantastic little boy and will be missed greatly. We are still in shock. God Bless.
Craig and Kristy Wilfahrt
Tim, my heart goes out to you and your family. You were so blessed to have been given the chance to be such a wonderful father to a dear, sweet boy. He will never be forgotten. I pray your heart heals as you cherish the many memories you have of Hayden. I pray for peace in your heart and soul for now and in the days ahead. I’m here for you, my friend. And many people are praying for you. Please know how loved you are.
Solien family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts during this difficult time.
I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family and let me know if ever I can help.
We are so very sorry to hear of your terrible loss. We continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Tim and Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this difficult time. No words can take away the agony you must be feeling. God Bless you!
Tim:
I am so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and your family during this tragic time. God has called your son home to be His Angel. There are no words to bring you comfort. We will keep you and your family in our prayers.
Sincerely,
Rita Quigley (Galvin)
When God calls our children
to dwell with Him above,
We mortals sometimes question
the wisdon of His love.
For no heartache compares with,
the death of one small child.
Who does so much to make our world,
seem so wonderful and mild.
Perhaps God tires of calling
the aged to His fold.
So He picks a rosebud
before it can grow old.
God knows how much we need them,
and so He takes but few.
To make the land of heaven
more beautiful to view.
Believing this is difficult
still somehow we must try.
The saddest word mankind knows
will always be Good-bye.
So when a little child departs,
we who are left behind,
Must realize God loves children.
Angels Are Hard To Find
My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this most difficult time. God bless.
Merilla and Family;
We are so heartbroken for your tragic loss. We are here for you if you need anything. Hugs and prayers and God Bless.
Your Neighbors,
Julie & Jack Bobrowske
When God calls our children
to dwell with Him above,
We mortals sometimes question
the wisdon of His love.
For no heartache compares with,
the death of one small child.
Who does so much to make our world,
seem so wonderful and mild.
Perhaps God tires of calling
the aged to His fold.
So He picks a rosebud
before it can grow old.
God knows how much we need them,
and so He takes but few.
To make the land of heaven
more beautiful to view.
Believing this is difficult
still somehow we must try.
The saddest word mankind knows
will always be Good-bye.
So when a little child departs,
we who are left behind,
Must realize God loves children.
Angels Are Hard To Find
I’m so very sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.
Tim, My heartfelt prayers for you at this difficult time. I think Dave is hugging him now. I pray for your peace.
Tim and family,
Our deepest sympathies on the loss of your beautiful son, Hayden, whom you will someday see again. We will forever keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
Tim and family;
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you along with my prayers and thoughts. As parents, our children are not to suffer or die before we do.
No words will make the pain go away.
Remember that Hayden will always be loved and missed but never forgotten.
Tim and Family,
We are both so deeply saddened by your loss of Hayden. No one knows why bad things happen to those so innocent and whose life has hardly begun. We are praying that your faith will help you through this very difficult time and help you to know that God’s purpose, whatever it may be, is at work. We pray that you will find the strength to get you through your grief and sadness.
Dear Solien and Socher families; You have our deepest heartfelt sympathy. It is so hard to understand how God can allow such sorrow, pain and grief. Hayden is in a beautiful place and he will always be an angel. Until you meet again, keep all of your memories of the life and love you shared close to your heart and Hayden will never leave you. He will be with you forever.
I will never forget my little buddy from across the street. Tim, Carrie and family, you are all in my prayers.
Carrie and Tim, We don’t know you but Colten & Hayden were in kindergarten and 2nd grade together. As a family who has experienced the same heartache, losing a child is the WORST posible thing a family can endure. Hayden’s tragedy has brought back memories day by day as if we were living our same nightmare over again. These days to come are going to be the hardest to even comprehend, but remember God is walking with you every step of the way. LEAN ON HIM along with your family and friends. We are praying you all will find peace to get through each day. Please contact us if we can be of any help to either of you.
Nicole and Troy Lanie
There are no words to express how sorry I am for the loss of your dear little boy. I understand your hurt, I lost my little girl when she was 2. The sun will shine again someday. Just remember no matter what, you are always Hayden’s Mom and Dad. He is heaven, he is safe and he is waiting for you! When you are reunited someday, there are no more good-byes. Hold these thoughts at this most difficult time. You are all in my prayers!
I rode the bus with him after school and we sat together and played games. I cannot believe he is gone. So sorry for your loss.
Tim, Carrie and family; We are so sorry for your loss but put your faith in God and he will see you through this difficult time. We are praying for strength for the whole family.
Carrie and Tim and family, we are so very sorry for your loss. May God bless you during this time. We will keep you in our prayers and thoughts.
Carrie; although we knew each other a long time ago, my heart breaks for you and your family. Take care of you. My deepest, deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Carrie, My heart broke when my mom called me that morning and through tears told me of your loss. Please know that you are in our constant thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Stacy Brenny Anderson
Carrie, Tim and to the entire family,
Carrie I have known you my whole life and can’t imagine the pain and sadness all of you must be feeling. My deepest sympathy and all of my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lori
It is so difficult to hear about such an accident, but the pain is felt even deeper when you know the families involved. My heart goes out to you all. Know that you are not grieving alone.
My heart goes out to you Carrie and your family. I am praying that you can be strong through these sorrowful days ahead. To lose a child is the worst that anyone can go through. Lord lift this family up and walk with them in their journey today.
Carrie:
No pain is greater than the loss of a child. May you find peace in your memories. Sending prayers your way.
Connie Okragleski
(Therapeutic Massage By Connie)
May you know the comfort & peace that comes from above and may you find help & strength in those you love. I am so sorry for your loss. With deepest sympathy.
To the Solien/Socher Families: My condolences to the entire family during this difficult time.
Tim, Carrie and family,
You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time!
Wendy and Pete Drusch
Carrie and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.
I just wanted to express my sincere sympathy to all of the family. I would see Hayden waiting for the bus a lot of times with Grandma hugging him while they were waiting. I came by a few minutes early on Friday morning and wonder what might have taken place if I had gone by at my usual time? May God’s love and peace help you at this time.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Steve, Kim and Hunter Bruhn
I’m so sorry to hear the news of Hayden. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. My wife was lucky enough to have your son as a student. She has shared many memories of his infectious smile over the last few days. He will definitely be missed by all.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss of your precious child. God bless and comfort you.
Carrie & Tim; words can’t even begin to express the sorrow I feel for the loss of your son.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cheryl & Mike Knaack
Tim, Carrie and family; Not a second has gone by that I haven’t been thinking about you. There is nothing I can say to ease this tragedy, so just know that I will go on praying for you and your family, and for some sort of peace to help get you through what no parent should ever have to experience. Pick out Hayden’s star tonight and know every time you see it that he is twinkling down on you sending his love. God bless you all!
Love,
Mollie
My deepest sympathy to you all in the loss of your dear Hayden. There simply are no words to express the grief. Treasure the memories.
So sorry for the loss of your beloved son. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of deep sorrow.
Tim, Carrie & Chloe,
We are so sorry about the loss of Hayden. He was a wonderful kid and he will be missed. We will be thinking of you and your family during this mournful time.
Carrie – my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Carrie and family,
We are deeply saddened for your loss and we are heart broken for you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers every day.
In this moment of sorrow, the Lord is in our midst and comforts us with these words: Blessed are the sorrowful; they shall be consoled. Amen.
I am truly sorry for what happened to Hayden. The man driving was my uncle and our family sends our condolences to you and your family and you will be in our prayers.
I imagine there is no pain more far-reaching and deeper than losing a child. My heart and prayers go out to you Carrie and your family today and in the many hard days to come.
Hayden and all your family are in our hearts and thoughts through this very difficult journey. God chose a very dear child in Hayden. Take comfort in that Hayden is being comforted in the arms of God.
Tim and Family; We are so sorry for your loss. You are all in our prayers! God Bless.
Annella, Betsy & Debbie (Endres)
Tim, Carrie and family; I am so very sorry for your loss. You all are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Troy, Lauren and Brandon
Hayden’s Family:
I am so sorry for you loss. I can’t even imagine your pain and heartbreak. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless!!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you today.
Dear families of Hayden, I’m so sorry for your loss of such a precious angel. I cannot fathom what you must be going through, but God is in your hearts and you have lots of people who love and are praying for you! God bless you all.
Love,
Katie Paripovich and family
Carrie and Family,
Thinking of you during this horrible time.
Too sad for words.
We are sorry to hear of the accident that has taken young Hayden from you. We wish to send our prayers out to you and your family in hopes that it will help you get through this hard and sad time. God bless you.
Chelsee, Donnie #182
Carrie and family,
My deepest condolences to you in this most difficult time.
Carrie, I was saddened to hear of your loss of your precious little boy, Hayden. My heart aches for you and I will continue to pray for you and your family.
Victoria